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Meet your I-maker, and feel less alone

Om symbol on the gate at the Ramanani Iyengar Memorial Yoga Institue in Pune, India

Om symbol on the gate at the Ramanani Iyengar Memorial Yoga Institue in Pune, India

In January, after several months of not taking a weekly yoga class, I started again, in a different space, with a different teacher.

One of the great benefits of taking a break and changing routines is that everything looks fresh, and emotions you’d forgotten come back to the surface, ripe for examination.

Somewhat to my horror, the first thing that rippled the waters was that old sea snake, competition. I watched myself wanting to know how other people in the room were doing with the poses, silently clucking at someone else’s misalignment, and hearing the familiar urgent questions: Better than me? Worse than me?
With them came a feeling of isolation, seeping in at the bottom of my consciousness and starting to rise.
In the past, I would give myself a quick mental wake-up slap. I’d say: “don’t compare,” and switch my attention back to the pose. This strategy works for as long it takes my mind to forget the instruction – somewhere between 30 seconds and five minutes.

That day, I stumbled on something much more effective. I suddenly realized that I had just caught the I-maker, (in Sanskrit ahamkara), at work. And in the moment of thinking, “ahamkara!” the tightness dissolved and something expansive gradually replaced it. I became keenly aware of the truth of the room – one life, fragmented into separate bodies. The sea snake was gone, without leaving a wake.

I sent a bouquet of gratitude to Birjoo Mehta, the extraordinary Iyengar teacher from Mumbai, whose explanation of the yogic idea of the mind is the clearest I’ve ever encountered.
Yoga philosphy, Birjoo told us in a Vancouver workshop last April, divides the mind into three parts. Manas, the sensory input device, takes information from the senses and delivers it to buddhi, intelligence.
Intelligence decides what to do with the sensory input, what meaning it has. Ahamkara, usually translated as ego, spends its time saying “me” or “not me” to whatever the mind encounters.
Countless decisions on the part of the I-maker accumulate to create the sense of a coherent self, enduring over time: I like birds. I like walking. I don’t like fusion jazz.
Ego is a charged word, often negative. But there is nothing wrong with the I-maker. It’s a necessary part of our minds. We couldn’t function without it.
But if we don’t know how it works, or that it even exists, the I-maker can go into overdrive. When it does, the result is alienation. We might feel inferior, or superior, but the result is always the same: suffering and an increase in ignorance (avidya). (In his supremely lucid translation of The Yoga Sutra of Patanjali, Chip Hartranft calls it “not seeing things as they are.”)

Just being aware of the I-maker can be enough to rein it back to healthy levels, especially given that yoga philosophy teaches that all of us, body, mind, emotions, along with all other beings and the inanimate world, are made of the same substance, prakriti.

Benefits: Practice noting when the I-maker is at work and you will find yourself less prey to an uncomfortable sense of isolation, no matter where you are or what you’re doing.

Sequence: Invaluable in class as a way of turning your awareness back to your own work. Just as useful in awkward social situations, where it allows you to relax and feel connection instead of separation.

Ouch: Resist the tendency to scold. Just note the I-maker at work. Whenever you catch yourself being caught up in ahamkara, try yoga teacher Judith Hanson Lasater’s suggestion and say: “how very human of me.”

Sanskrit corner: Say Ah-hum-KAR-ra. Aham means I. Kara means maker.

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  • Richard Harrsion March 29, 2010, 9:05 am

    Hi Eve,

    My ahamkara liked this post a lot too! the gentle awareness/acceptance/ intention perspective is very compatable with Pema Chodron’s writings/teachings about starting where we are. thank you for this and for so much more, too


    • Eve March 29, 2010, 9:22 am

      Hi Richard,
      I love Pema Chodron – a very down-to-earth and yet transcendent voice. Thanks for making the connection for me.

  • Gwyneth March 26, 2010, 10:36 am

    Hi Eve,
    Great post! Thanks so much for sharing.
    I think this part is my favourite: “In the past, …. I’d say: ‘don’t compare,’ and switch my attention back to the pose. This strategy works for as long it takes my mind to forget the instruction – somewhere between 30 seconds and five minutes.” This happens to me all the time (the comparing, the reminding and the forgetting, and not just in yoga!) and it makes me feel better to know it also happens to someone who has practiced yoga for longer than I have. I also like the word ahamkara and the reminder that it isn’t necessarily a shortcoming just an example of my humanness.

    • Eve March 26, 2010, 2:52 pm

      Hi Gwyneth,
      I’m so glad you liked the post. One of the things I like most about yoga philosophy that it focuses on how we function and what strategies are useful and not useful in becoming more free, instead of attaching labels about good and bad.

  • Jenn Forgie March 25, 2010, 3:29 pm

    Nice piece eve. I find that darn I-Maker creeping up just about everywhere…though she doesn’t like it when I slap her. I think your approach above is far more wise and gentle. And thank you for sharing your human-ness :)


    • Eve March 26, 2010, 8:37 am

      Hey Jenn:
      I’m slowly learning that gentle is the most powerful way to go. Sometimes I think we should all just drop what we’re doing and devote ourselves to studying Marshall Rosenberg’s amazing work in Nonviolent Communication for a year or two.
      Judith Lasater’s husband is a facilitator, and she teaches the principles of the work in her workshops, along with the anatomy and asana. It’s a great combination.

  • Brooke March 25, 2010, 2:27 pm

    Oh my goodness, I am so open to receiving this message at this time! It made me laugh and nod in appreciation. I could also use some attention on my ‘I should’ maker….
    Thank you so much Eve for your valuable contributions. I am grateful.

    • Eve March 26, 2010, 8:25 am

      Hey Brooke,
      Good to hear from you!
      Love the concept of an ‘I should’ maker. A very tricky customer to get a handle on.