Practicing contentment increases our ability to quiet our minds
It’s a new year. The clean, precise energy of January has replaced December’s animal urge to fight the darkness by drinking sparkling things and eating After Eight mints.
Now we’re in the season of setting goals.
For years, my yoga goals went like this: I will practice every day. I will do headstand in the middle of the room, I will bring my head to my shins in seated forward bends. I will finally get strong enough to do chaturanga (the yoga pushup).
Not any more. What they morphed into, and why it all changed is a longer story. But the first step was making the resolution that’s this week’s Five-Minute Yoga Challenge: I will practice contentment.
This may seem odd if you think of contentment as a state that will arrive when certain conditions have been fulfilled, but from a yogi’s perspective, contentment is a practice.
In Sanskrit, it’s Santosha, the second of the five niyamas, or observances, that Patanjali outlines in The Yoga Sutras. And contentment is indispensable in creating the state of mind necessary for practicing yoga.
Isn’t it discontent that drives us to improve? Human beings thrive on challenge, and there is no standing still. Either our practice grows, or it shrinks. Why move forward if you are happy where you are now?
But just as in asana, the obvious direction isn’t always the right one.
When we wish to stretch up, we first press down into the ground. And when we’re extending toward the right, we first take our weight and awareness back to the left.
In the same paradoxical way, practicing contentment helps us sustain the fire of tapas, the burning zeal we need to sustain our practice. Far from making us self-satisfied and indolent, contentment helps to quiet our minds. And it’s a shorter step to the mat from that quiet space than it is from the busy mind of discontent.
So this week’s Five-Minute Yoga Challenge is an exercise in contentment. If you only have five minutes in your day, then just sit and do this practice. Your can do your sitting in a chair, just as long as your spine is long.
First, settle yourself in a comfortable seated position, with your lower body releasing downward, and your spine lifting.
Bring your palms together, base of your thumbs to the base of your sternum.
Close your eyes and soften them away from your eyelids. Feel your brain cells softening and releasing down toward your heart centre. Soften your jaw, and let the root of your tongue release inward and down.
Exhale and let go of the past. It can’t be fixed. It doesn’t need to be hidden. Accept that your past is yours only, your unique circumstance to work from, and say yes to it, then let it go.
Now exhale and let go of the future.
Turn off the voice that says: “it’s not going to be okay,” and then the voice that says: “when I get my new practice space, lover, baby, car, ability to do this pose, then I will be happy.”
Spend a moment being grateful for the mat itself, for the space to roll it out in, for the gift of yoga, the freedom to practice, and the availability of teachers.
None of these could be taken for granted as little as 50 years ago.
Then find contentment in your own body, in the poses you can do, in your growing awareness. Feel the quiet and peace of contentment, and carry that peace with you as you either move into your practice or into your day.
When you end your practice, take a moment to feel contentment for what you have achieved, even if it was only showing up on a day when it would have been much easier to give the mat a miss.
Benefits: Practicing contentment helps us learn that happiness, in the words of Marcus Aurelius, “is an inward power of the soul,” and not a reflection of what we own, where we work, or who loves us.
Sequence: All the time, everywhere, but especially when you come face to face with your difficult poses. In Light on Life, B.K.S. Iyengar writes, “Let the goal be to reach perfection but be content with a little progress toward perfection every day.”
Sanskrit Corner: Say san-TOE-sha. Santosha means contentment.
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Beauty!
What a perfect New Year blog
Contentment is a word I have worked with in practice for many years, off and on. This perspective of your is bringing me back to it with new energy
Thank you
Hey Caren,
I think that’s what I like most about the new year – we reconnect with the good and useful directions we set last time around, and might have reset on our birthdays or other days, symbolic or not. Every time we touch, the good direction gets stronger – kind of like quitting smoking in reverse. I’m glad to have helped in the process.
Thanks Eve, for this very timely and important posting.
Hey Laurie, good to hear from you. Glad you liked it.
The words contentment and compassion occupied a considerable amount of my awareness this Christmas season … not a coincidence to be sure. Judy
Funny how often the same themes seem to float around in the air – some kind of unconscious conversation, do you think? Nice words to be contemplating over Christmas.
Practice Contentment. I love the way your posts alter the way I look at life. And you have such a skill with words … “the clean, precise energy of January” … it’s so apt. I’ve read books and articles about contentment/happiness before but your concise words today make it seem so possible to practice it rather than sounding like a loftier goal than I can manage. I hope this makes sense. Happy New Year, Eve!
Happy New Year to you too Beverly!
If I’ve made it seem possible to practice contentment, then I’ve done what I hoped to do.
Great post today, Eve. I think your contentment practice would also work for writing!
Well, there’s certainly no upside to being chronically discontent about your own writing, so yes I think it would too.